We Must Ask

October 4

Therefore wisdom and knowledge will be given you.

2 Chronicles 1:12

It had been a year since the couple had battled issues of infidelity, and he was

wondering how his younger brother and his wife were doing. On the sur-

face, everything appeared fine. But he knew that the early stages of temptation

rarely show outward signs.

“Have you spoken to Gail about how she and Jeremy are doing lately?” he

asked his wife. “They appear to be okay. I just wonder if they really are.”

“Actually, I asked her last week. She assures me things are great,” she responded.

He remembered his own battle with infidelity; it had almost ruined his

marriage in the early years. He’d given in to temptation and made a terrible mis-

take. Fortunately, his wife believed in their marriage vows in a way he would later

come to understand, and they had worked through the pain of his indiscretion.

He had become accountable back then by giving two men permission to

ask personal questions about his faithfulness and to take any measures neces-

sary to remind him of his commitment to one woman. He’d needed that help

because the enemy had visited with the temptation of desire until he gained

victory through perseverance. He thanked God once again for the commit-

ment of those two men; for without them asking, “Are you experiencing any

sexual temptation?” he would have been left alone to resist the temptation. He

prayed that God would send someone to keep his brother and sister-in-law

accountable.

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We all face some nature of temptation; none are exempt. We need account-

ability with someone we are comfortable confiding in because self-sufficiency

in spiritual matters will eventually result in our failure to resist.

Solomon asked God for wisdom instead of wealth, riches, or honor. Because

of that, God granted his desire. He also gave him wealth, riches, and honor.

But wisdom is the key. Without it, we have no basis for understanding

with which to make sound decisions.

If someone we know has fallen to temptation in the past, the question is,

“Dare we ask him how things are today?” The answer is yes. Wisdom says we

must ask.

Prayer

“Help me be a friend that helps others avoid

temptation, Lord. And please send someone to help

guide me along the path of wisdom. Amen.”

 Enough to Send His Son

October 3

This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his

Son … for our sins.

1 John 4:10

“What makes you so sure?” Jenna’s question about God loving us apart from

our performance was valid. She wanted to know why God didn’t require good

behavior a prerequisite to salvation.

“God told us through His Word, Jenna,” Shari explained, opening her

Bible and reading, ‘This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us.’”

Shari searched for the right words. “Jenna, we could never measure up to

God’s standards. His holiness requires perfection, and we aren’t perfect. Scrip-

ture says, ‘All have sinned.’ That means we needed a perfect sacrifice to save us.

That was God’s Son. God’s love is so fierce that He would rather send Jesus to

die in our place than allow us to spend eternity apart from Him.” Shari felt it

was time to ask Jenna to make a decision. “Would you like to know such love?”

“You know,” Jenna began, “I’ve watched you and Walt, and I see some-

thing.” She paused. “You have such a peace, even when things aren’t going so

great. I’d really like to know that peace in my life.”

Shari silently asked for the right words. “Jenna, God wants you to know

that peace too. All you need to do is accept His Son into your heart. You can’t

earn salvation; it’s a free gift given at a high price.” Seeing tears begin to form

in Jenna’s eyes, she pressed on. “Just ask Jesus to take over from today on. Tell

Him you know you’re a sinner in need of His sacrifice.”

Jenna bowed her head, and Jesus became her Lord and Savior.

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There is nothing we can do to earn God’s love or approval. He showed us His

love on the cross of Calvary.

He does require a humble heart, a heart turned to Him, a heart willing to

accept His great love and not one trying to earn it.

It costs us nothing. It cost Him everything because He cared enough to

send His Son.

Prayer

“Father God, I lift my life to You in this moment

and commit it to You. Wash my sins white as snow

with Your Son’s blood. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

 Forever!

October 2

But he who feeds on this bread will live forever.

John 6:58

For whom blackest darkness has been reserved forever.

Jude 1:13

“So you’re telling me that when I die I’ll continue to live, not in physical form,

but live nonetheless?” Jack could see Stan’s skepticism. “And you believe that?”

Stan asked.

“To the best of my ability,” was Jack’s honest answer. “Look, Stan, I admit

that I don’t fully understand everything the term forever means, but Scripture

says that we will live forever in heaven or hell. I believe that.”

Stan thought about that for a minute and then said, “I don’t know if I can

wrap my mind around that enough to believe it.”

“You can’t wrap your mind around the things of God, Stan,” Jack tried to

explain. “God is so much bigger than us. Just ask Him for the faith to believe

now instead of trying to figure it all out before you accept His offer of salvation.”

Stan was unmoved.

“Look, Stan, I’m just saying it requires faith to believe in something we

can’t categorically prove here and now. I’m also saying that I believe even

though I have some questions about how forever actually works. Forever is a

term we really don’t understand. But not understanding it completely has no

effect on the truth that we will live forever.”

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We tend to fear things outside our control, disbelieving what we don’t under-

stand. We live from day to day, taking life as it comes. We’re not acquainted

with more than a temporal existence, so it’s hard to grasp the nature of eternity.

Trying to completely understand eternity is like trying to remember what

it was like breathing amniotic fluid. We know it happened; yet we don’t under-

stand it much, if at all.

The word forever conjures thoughts of living with physical, emotional, or

mental limitations for the rest of time. But throughout eternity there will be no

curse, and those limits will cease to exist.

Faith requires belief in an Infinite Someone bigger than our finite mind

truly understands. Our not understanding forever does not make it untrue.

Prayer

“Lord, give me faith to believe in forever so that

my choices here are based on where I want to

spend all that time. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

 Sludge Free

October 1

You must live no longer as the Gentiles do.

Ephesians 4:17

There was no longer any friendly banter. The politicians had pulled out all

the stops, and the gloves had come off. They were running smear campaigns

and defaming each other. It didn’t matter what damage was done or that they

had stooped to new lows; they wanted to win. Character assassination was the

order of the day.

“Can you believe this?” Melodie said, laying down the newspaper. “Neither

of them is standing on godly principals. All they want is to make his opponent

look bad. I can’t, in good conscience, vote for either one of them.”

Kyle sighed. “They’re both walking in darkness. Both have consistently

voted against moral legislation. They’ve made this election about money and

who’s going to bring the economy back in line. You know, if we would honor

God’s laws, we wouldn’t be in this financial crisis. There doesn’t seem to be a

politician on the Hill that’s standing for what God wants. It’s getting so even

the lesser of two evils is totally evil!” Kyle looked toward the ceiling and voiced

his concerns. “Forgive our nation, Lord, and those of us who allowed things to

get to this point. Raise up men and women to carry the fight to Washington

and right this sinking ship. Lift us out of the darkness that has spread itself

over our nation like sludge. Amen.”

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The New Living Translation uses the word ungodly in place of Gentiles, denot-

ing Gentiles as anyone not living a godly life.

The world is full of people seeking personal gain in a godless manner.

Among them are many of our politicians. They seek to further and empower

their party’s worldview regardless of the cost.

Paul is precise in his instruction of how we are to respond. We are to avoid

such living while trying to influence those who choose this lifestyle in a godly

manner. We may find ourselves with opportunities to share our faith, yet we

are instructed to not live as they do. Paul knew that our own spirituality will

become contaminated if we swim in sludge.

Prayer

“Lord, keep me under Your watch and care. Help

me refrain from anything that fails to line up

with Your will. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

 I Don’t Want This Bed

September 30

Humble yourselves … under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you

up.

1 Peter 5:5, 6

Reuben, struggling to roll over while trying to not wake his wife, finally made it

and then sat up on the edge of the bed. He tentatively reached behind himself

with both hands and began rubbing his lower back. I hate this bed! This thing’s

killin’ my back! I hate my back too. Hey, God, how about a touch, he asked silently.

He’d been asking God for healing for almost thirty years now. My thorn, I guess,

was his first thought, followed by his second, This bed’s gotta go!

He made his way to the shower and just stood there, allowing the hot

water to massage his aching muscles.

June emerged from the bedroom a half hour later, whistling and ready for

the day.

Reuben looked at her and said, “We’re getting a new bed today.” Then he

added, “I refuse to sleep on that slab of rock one more night!”

“I’m sorry, honey,” June said with a bit of a chuckle. “But do you really

think the next mattress is going to be any better than the last four?”

Reuben was determined to try at least one more time. “I won’t be able to

answer that question until we try the new one we’re buying today.” And fol-

lowing breakfast, they jumped in the pickup truck and headed for the Discount

Wholesale Furniture Warehouse.

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Society often uses the idiom, “You made your bed, now lie in it!” But God says

He can lift us out of difficult circumstances.

It is within each of us to make spiritual changes based on what God is able

to do for us. We are not hindered from asking Him to show us the way to a

better life. We are limited only by our courage to humbly ask Him to show us

how to bring about such improvement.

When we make the effort to lift ourselves day by day to a new spiritual

level, God provides what’s necessary to attain that life. Though it may require

temporary discomfort, we need not suffer a negative attitude that is clouded by

our physical circumstances.

Prayer

“Lord, I come to You asking for guidance. Show

me how to improve my mind-set and to look to

You instead for my daily bread. Amen.”

 I Understand

September 29

For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with

our weaknesses.

Hebrews 4:15

As Bart began the long drive back home, sadness descended upon him. His

wife, Jenny, had died two years ago, and now this. He had just left his son, Tren-

ton’s, basic training graduation. Bart had remained strong for Trenton as they’d

released each other in embrace, saying good-bye for who knew how long. Trent

had orders to ship out for the Persian Gulf tomorrow, and the weight of that

was hitting Bart like a sledge to the chest.

Arriving home, Bart listened to the one message on his answering machine.

“Hey, Bart, it’s Gary. Give me a call. I reserved a tee time for six-o’clock at

Apple Valley. Doug and Chris are gonna round out the foursome.”

Gary’s son had been killed in a firefight when the army’s Third Infantry,

along with the 101st Airborne, had made the initial assault on Baghdad in 2003.

As they teed off, just the presence of these three military fathers brought

Bart comfort. They understood his heart. He didn’t need to say anything if he

didn’t want to, but that unspoken support told him that he would find under-

standing with any of them when times became difficult.

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Gary’s sensitivity to Bart’s situation told him loud and clear, “I understand

what you’re feeling.” Bart knew that Gary’s arranging the golf outing was his

way of saying, “If you need anything, bro, we’re here.”

We all need someone in our lives who understands what we’re going

through, and God is faithful. He quickens the spirit of those who have suffered

similar situations, those who are acquainted with our troubled heart, when we

need encouragement. And, as Gary did for Bart, others step up to comfort us.

Yet, even if no one completely understands, there is One Who truly knows

what our heart needs most. That One is Jesus. Without a doubt, He can say, “I

understand.” Hold out your wounded heart today and find peace.

Prayer

“Jesus, my heart has known sorrow. My heart has known

pain. I thank You for bringing peace and comfort

when I need it most. Help me reach out to others in

that same way whenever I see a need. Amen.”

 Stubborn Pride

September 28

I will break down your stubborn pride.

Leviticus 26:19

They pulled their motorcycles in the drive, hung up their helmets, and headed

for the backyard. They found the girls deep in conversation.

Unexpectedly, Connie turned on Mac; her eyes were like two lasers; her

body language screamed I’m far from happy!

Wary and on guard, Mac realized he wouldn’t have to wait long to find

out why.

“You know something?” Her tongue borrowed the fire from her eyes. “You

have back problems!” she finished vehemently and then let it hang there.

Embarrassed, Mac responded defensively, “What the heck are you talking

about? My back is just fine!” Among his racing thoughts was What is she talkin’

about?

Interrupting those thoughts, she spat out, “It must not be … because every

time you say ‘I’ll be right back,’ you leave, and I don’t see you for hours!”

His pride now fully under attack, Mac remained defensive. “Now just

wait a minute—” But Connie cut him off. “You’ve been gone for seven hours,

Mac!” There was no mistaking her frustration. “I’m tired of you dropping me

off wherever,” she said, waving her arms expansively, “leaving me at your mercy

with no vehicle, to await your return while you go play!”

He realized the truth of her statement, but his pride was unrelenting. “Oh,

bull! That’s not true,” he denied, wondering how lame he sounded.

With tears in her eyes, Connie simply said, “You know the truth, Mac.”

Finally, with the truth undeniable, Mac relented. “I’m sorry. I didn’t want

to admit I was being so insensitive.”

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Mac realized there was no excuse for his actions. And so it is when our pride

meets the light of God’s truth: all of our arguments are hollow—any defense of

our stubborn pride meets that light and is seen for what it really is: rebellion.

God warned the Israelites He would break their stubborn pride if they

failed to obey His commands. God brings us warning when we exhibit a pride-

ful attitude. We have a choice: choose humility over pride, or God Himself will

humble us.

Prayer

“Lord, help me lay down my pride so I can see the path

You have chosen for me. Help me treat others with the

love and respect they deserve. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”