Understanding Comfort
August 14
Comfort … with the comfort we ourselves have received.
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2 Corinthians 1:4
Danny was a commercial construction contractor. His firm built low-rise struc-
tures in and around the downtown area. He and his wife, Susan, their three
children, Ammie, Ben, and Chris, lived in the suburbs.
This morning, Danny was running a bit late, but that was okay because
it was Saturday, and he would be the only one at the jobsite anyway. He and
Susan had stayed up late to watch It’s a Wonderful Life last night, Susan gig-
gling at George and Mary’s whirlwind romance, teasing Danny and saying, “If
you treated me the way George treats Mary, we’d never have a bad day.” Susan
would remember, with heart-wrenching clarity, her comment in the days to
come.
As Danny jumped in his truck, Susan waved good-bye through the side
door. Neither of them saw Chris playing behind his father’s truck, and in one
horrifying moment, Danny put the truck in reverse and backed out of the
garage, running over his five-year-old son, killing him instantly.
In the weeks that followed, they were surrounded by friends and family
who tried to comfort them. But no comfort could be found. Danny couldn’t
sleep; Susan blamed herself and Danny for the loss of her son.
The blame would shift from themselves to God and back over the next
two years. Their faith would ultimately hold them together, and grief counsel-
ing would bring a measure of healing. But not before the enemy had his way
for awhile.
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What do we do when tragedy of this magnitude invades our lives? It seems
so unfair, and the anger over a life taken long before its time runs deep. “How
could a loving God allow something like this to happen?”
We say, “Bad things happen to good people.” And this is true but woefully
inadequate for these situations.
The truth is bad things do happen, and sometimes they happen to us
instead of somebody else. And we need the understanding comfort only God
and those who have lost a child can bring. If you are bearing this grief, reach
out. If you have lived through this nightmare, comfort those whose pain is still
raw.
Prayer
“My life is Yours, Lord. But today that doesn’t
help. Show me how to grieve this unspeakable loss.
Bring healing to my broken heart. Amen.”