Craig Clouston

Sticks and Stones

Whenever Hannah went up to the house of the Lord, her rival provoked her till she wept and would not eat.
1 Samuel 1:7

Laura wiped at her tears as she walked up the drive; she didn’t want Dick to see she’d been crying. “I hate mean people!” she vehemently cursed under her breath, not noticing or caring as the bus faded into the distance.
Thoughts from today’s trip whirled through her head. Why does this always happen? Why are people so mean? And why can’t people just leave me alone? She would never get used to the stares and the names. I never hurt any of them, and still they call me hurtful names, staring at me as if I’m some kind of monster! The tears began anew.
At seventeen, Laura had been in an explosion involving a gas grill. It had left her with burns over thirty percent of her body. The right side of her face had required extensive cosmetic surgery, leaving disfigurement that could not be hidden. She was still receiving monthly treatments to stretch ongoing skin grafts.
Laura hated visits to the city. Because no matter how much she prayed, she always saw that look and heard those comments.
Why couldn’t people see past the scars? “Why couldn’t You have just let me die in that explosion?” she challenged God for the hundredth time.

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“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.” Most of us have used this comeback as a form of protection for lack of a better defense. The idiom is a lie; name-calling hurts.
And for good reason. It undermines our personal confidence while telling us we are defective and unacceptable; it wounds a heart longing to be loved.
Hannah was so affected by name-calling that she wept until she couldn’t eat! But God heard Hannah’s cry. And he hears ours too. Like Hannah, we too might endure ridicule we do not deserve, but, in the end, our sorrow will turn to joy. There is no guarantee that our situation will soon change, as there is no shortage of mean-spirited people. But God hears our cry. And in time He will take away our pain.

Prayer

“Lord, help me bring healing instead of pain. Guard my tongue and words. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”