Craig Clouston

Know Criticism, Know Judgment;

No Criticism, No Judgment

Do not judge, or you too will be judged.

Matthew 7:1

Matt believed that because other people’s shortcomings were so evident to him it was his responsibility to point them out. He felt that if he objectively criticized people they would make an effort to change their behavior. And because of his perceived responsibility, Matt never hesitated to give his opinion on any given matter, at any given moment.

One day as Matt was creatively criticizing a coworker, his boss happened to be standing nearby. Hearing Matt’s openly critical analogy of his coworker’s abilities, he decided to give Matt a lesson in grace. The moment Matt finished, he walked over and said, “You know, Matt, it’s one thing to give constructive criticism when it’s asked for; quite another to indiscriminately berate a person because you believe you are doing them a favor.”

Matt was astonished that his boss didn’t seem to appreciate his actions and explained that he was only doing it so his coworker would be an asset to the company instead of a liability!

“You know, Matt, when you first started here I was warned against hiring you. But I saw potential. I believed you to be a man of integrity. If you continue berating people I might be forced to reconsider my original assessment.”

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True wisdom appreciates constructive criticism. Regardless of this fact, it is still uncomfortable, and should be solicited, not offered.

It is easier to judge than look inside and change the wrong within. And for that reason we must guard against judging.

The Matts of the world fail to understand the destructive nature of their actions until they themselves are judged. Nobody appreciates a hypocrite; especially within the Church. When those outside the Church see those inside beating each other up, they want no part of it.

The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control; Paul did not list criticism or judgment. We should make every effort to offer grace, lest we be judged.

Prayer

“I thank You that You are patient with me, Lord. Help me to bear good fruit that is enticing, not spoiled remnants that repel, discourage and destroy. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.”