In Light of the Truth

But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all truth.
John 16:13

Out of the blue, Mark said, “You know, Britt, some of the things I learned growing up don’t serve me well today.”
“What do you mean?” Britt asked.
“Well, some of what I learned was actually counterproductive and discriminatory in nature. Some of the things I did were unsavory. They were done in ignorance.”
“So how did you figure out what things no longer, as you put it, serve you well?” Britt asked.
“Well, through studying the Bible and spending time in prayer, God has opened my eyes by showing me that some things I once believed to be harmless were actually extremely destructive. He made me aware of the negative influence they had in my life and those around me.”
Britt was intrigued. “So what kind of things are you talking about?”
“Well, one example would be my habitual use of foul language. I could, as they say, swear like a sailor. But then I realized how terrible a witness profanity is and how it offends God when those words are spoken.”
Britt smiled and asked, “So how’d you stop swearing?”
“I no longer justified the behavior in light of the truth. I disciplined myself to preappraise my speech. It’s a retraining process that’s not always easy. But I’ve found that if I’m willing to change, God will equip me for the challenge.”

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With few exceptions, our parents did the best they knew how when it came to raising us. In truth, many things we picked up on our own, without our parents’ knowledge. Had they known, they would have blistered our behinds!
As we mature, we come under new influence; our perceptions change. And although profanity is used in today’s scenario, the list of sin’s exposure to truth is broad-based. When we do things we shouldn’t, we notice a catch in our spirit, a Holy Spirit alert.
Heeding God’s Spirit is always the correct course of action. However, we don’t always take the road less traveled. Just remember: the more we seek the truth, the more we discover.

Prayer

“Help me sort through what I believe and why I believe it. Show me what needs to go, and renew my mind to Your precepts. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Giving Our All

Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. Do not cause anyone to stumble.
1 Corinthians 10:31, 32

“How much longer are we gonna be here?” Jensen hated physical labor and wasn’t hiding the fact he didn’t enjoy being here. He’d been subjecting everyone to a steady monologue about “getting roped into this project.”
“I don’t enjoy comin’ to Hicksville doin’ work for somebody I don’t know, let alone doin’ it for free!”
He was deriding his church’s Resurrection! outreach program; they repaired homes in underprivileged neighborhoods.
Simon had listened to all the complaining he could take. “What’s your problem? This is a community service to show Christ’s love. If you didn’t want to do it, why’d you sign up?” He was concerned that if Jensen continued complaining, the homeowner might hear them and take offense. “You may not get it, Jensen, but we enjoy doing this. We figure we’re on God’s clock, and it’s His choice to reward us. But that’s not why we do it.”
“So why do you?” Jensen asked with a true sense of sincerity.
“Because Jesus says we should help those less fortunate.” Simon put his hand on Jensen’s shoulder. “Look, man, this may not be your idea of working for the kingdom. If not, then find out what lights you up for Jesus and do it. But for today, could you just try to see the good in what we’re doing and commit yourself to the work?”
“I never thought about it like that,” Jensen responded. “Yeah, I can do that.” And with that, he went to work with a new perspective of why he was there.

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Giving our all means serving without restraint. When we serve our fellowman, it is a service to God. And our attitude in regard to service speaks loud and clear.
Kingdom work is not meant to bring us glory. If we complain when we serve, even silently, then maybe we should examine our motives. Because if we serve with a chip on our shoulder, the world will know; and we will build a wall where a bridge is meant to be.

Prayer

“I sometimes fall short when it comes to serving without complaint, Lord. Help me build bridges instead of walls. In Jesus’ Name, amen. “

What’s the Difference?

Keep your servant from willful sins.
Psalm 19:13

“What’s the difference if I make a mistake once in a while?” Jean asked. “I mean, it’s not like I did it intentionally, you know … ” Her voice trailed off.
Her argument sounded good, but Carolann knew the truth. “You know as well as I do that it matters. And you know why. You knew that what you were doing was wrong, yet you chose to do it anyway. That’s a choice, not a mistake.”
She continued to correct Jean in love. “Making an honest mistake is one thing; blatant disregard for moral and ethical standards is another.”
Jean bristled at Carolann’s words. “I’m not perfect like some people I know!” she said, angry at having been rebuked when she’d shared the confidential information on her own. “I didn’t have to tell you, ya know,” she insisted. “God’s not going to strike me down because I made one mistake,” she challenged defensively. “And I am better than I used to be.”
“No, He won’t. And yes, you are growing. But remember, God knows what’s in our heart when mistakes are made. More than that,” Carolann emphasized, “being a Christian means we’re supposed to look and act differently than the world. Do you understand?”
“Yes,” Jean acknowledged. “If it’s any consolation, I didn’t get any pleasure out of it anyway,” she admitted sheepishly.
“You asked, ‘What’s the difference?’ The difference is, when Jesus comes into our life, sin no longer has the same appeal. And once we begin to live for Christ, we begin to look and feel different.”

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God’s instruction leads to life. Yet our moral consciousness is flawed and imperfect. This means we can sin without understanding it is sin. However, there are times we knowingly and willfully go against the nature and will of God—sins of commission.
Unless there is a change of heart, there will be no discernable difference in how we feel toward sin or look to the world. Giving our lives to Christ does not mean sin no longer exists in our lives. It means when we sin, convicting discomfort sets in, and we have another choice to make.

Prayer

“Father, show me the sin in my life. Give me a heart of discernment that I might not sin against You. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Big, Mean Bully

The Lord disciplines those he loves.
Proverbs 3:12

As the story unfolded, the boys related how they’d found some “giant ant hills.” And, as boys do, they decided to rid the neighborhood of them. Having procured some gasoline and stick matches, they saturated the hills with gas, stood back, and threw a lighted match. The ensuing explosion sent embers flying in every direction, hence the large grassfire. Running to the nearest house, they had alerted the owner, who called 911.
As the fire trucks pulled away, Jamie, standing beside his father, asked, “Is God gonna punish me for startin’ that fire?”
Looking at his nine-year-old son, Luther wondered, Where do we get this picture of a big, mean God waiting to punish us?
He said, “No, Jamie, God is not going to punish you. But do you understand all three of you could have been badly burned or killed today? And you could have burned people’s homes to the ground.”
They walked a little farther, and Luther said, “God isn’t going to punish you, Jamie. I, however, am. Because of your little escapade, you’re grounded for two weeks. No contact with Bruce or Stevie during that time. And you will call Mr. Breece to see if he wants you to help him clean up his property. Is that understood?”
“Yes. I’m sorry. We were just tryin’ to kill those ants was all.” He sounded so forlorn; Luther had to turn his head to keep Jamie from seeing his smile.

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God is not a big, mean bully, arbitrarily punishing us for our mistakes. He does, however, discipline those He calls sons and daughters. I’ve not met a loving father who didn’t reprimand his children when they’ve done wrong.
Like Luther with Jamie, God disciplines us to keep us from harming others or ourselves. His discipline is not indiscriminate or ambiguous. It is intended to teach us how to eliminate unnecessary trouble from our lives.
To do that, God first instructs us; when instruction fails, He is forced to gain our attention with love-driven discipline.
Rebellion and mistakes have consequences. Most, if not all, could be avoided by heeding our Father’s instruction.

Prayer

“Father God, teach me to listen to Your instruction. Discipline me for my own sake when I’m rebellious. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

When Christ Comes

If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.
2 Corinthians 5:17

Ray wasn’t so much uncaring as he was self-preservation driven. He did what he thought was best for him. “Look, if we don’t jump on this, we may not get another opportunity.” He was adamantly defending purchasing stock options without a thorough background check of the company they were looking at. It was a merger buyout—the perfect opportunity to make a quick buck—and Ray couldn’t understand their hesitation. “Why is it so important that you know how the money is being used?”
“Shelly and I don’t want to unknowingly fund groups whose secular worldview and agendas don’t align with our biblical worldview,” his brother-in-law Peter answered. Shelly reminded Ray, “Do you remember when I spoke to you about our perspective in regard to finances?” Receiving a blank stare, she continued. “We believe our finances are God-given for the purpose of growing His kingdom, not for our own personal gain. Anything that goes against His will is not where we want our money.”
“Whatever.” His condescending attitude was dripping with sarcasm. “Just don’t cry to me because you missed out on a good deal.”
Peter never hesitated. “Ray, the last thing we would do is blame you for a poor choice on our part. So until we know what our investment is being used for, we have no intention of taking part in the merger, huge returns or not.”

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Until Christ comes into our lives, our decisions are based on selfish choices, mostly by how those choices relate to our perceived personal desires and possible accomplishment.
When Christ comes into our lives, our lives are Holy Spirit directed, and we begin to view things through kingdom lenses. Now we realize our responsibility in making spiritually correct choices.
For the most part, this does not happen automatically; we must persevere in spiritual discipline by asking God for His input in every aspect of our lives. No issue is too small; no problem is too big. To get rid of the old nature requires taking an active part in killing the old. Once we understand God’s sacrifice, it becomes a blessing to do the will of the Lord.

Prayer

“Father, show me what’s right for my life. Teach me to ask for Your advice and speak to me through others. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Self-Imposed Ignorance

Therefore this generation will be held responsible for the blood of all the prophets.
Luke 11:50

“Did you hear about the Reager boy?” Janet asked but didn’t pause long enough to allow Tom time to answer. “Kali told me he missed school this week because his father beat him, and he doesn’t want anyone to see the marks.”
“Janet, I swear. You listen to too much gossip,” Tom said. “I can’t believe George would lay a hand on his kids.” What he was actually thinking was, I’m not about to get involved in some other family’s affairs. It’s none of our business as far as I’m concerned.
But Janet didn’t let it go. “Tom Sherman! I can’t believe you’d ignore this to keep from getting involved. Shame on you!”
“What proof do you have anyway? Where did Kali hear about it?” he said defensively. “And even if it’s true, what are we supposed to do?” he demanded. “That’s a job for children’s services or the police.”
“If they don’t know about it, they can’t do anything!” Janet said adamantly.
“So why do we have to be the ones to tell them?” he argued.
“Because we’re the ones who know,” she said quietly.
In that final statement, Tom knew she was right and decided that to do nothing was to allow it to continue. He picked up the phone and dialed children’s services.

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Self-imposed ignorance is a form of denial. If denial lasts long enough, great tragedy will occur.
In the 1940s, the Germans heard rumors of evil being committed in their midst, yet they refused to investigate for themselves in order to remain ignorant and therefore not responsible to take action. At the end of the war, Allied troops marched German citizens through concentration camps and also forced them to look upon mass graves in hopes that they would never again allow ignorance to perpetuate evil.
In today’s text, God assigned blame for the blood of the prophets on those who turned a blind eye to brutality and murder.
Self-imposed ignorance is no excuse. We are responsible for the knowledge we possess, and we can only claim ignorance once. Once enlightened, we have a responsibility to take action.

Prayer

“Lord, cause me to do what is right when I become aware of wrong. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Inconsequential

And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered … you are worth more than many sparrows.
Matthew 10:30, 31

Bethany was fourteen when she tried to take her own life. She saw herself as a disappointment and felt she had no choice but to end her life by hanging herself from the rafters in the garage. Divine intervention brought her brother to the garage at the very moment she stepped off the chair. Grabbing her around the legs, he stepped onto the chair and supported her with one hand while removing the rope with the other.
Bethany later admitted that she felt inconsequential and unsuccessful—neither of which was true—and saw everything through a pass or fail lens; in her mind, there had been no room for error.
Her parents were shocked and horrified to learn their youngest daughter had thought of herself as a failure or that she believed death was the answer.

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We no longer allow our children to be average. And because of this mind-set, our children are choosing to end their lives because they don’t measure up in their own eyes.
Teen suicide is a growing epidemic and in large part is a result of being subjected to irrational ideals that create irreconcilable dilemmas teens are neither emotionally nor spiritually mature enough to handle.
Irreconcilable dilemmas create depression that, if unrecognized, causes excessive withdrawal and isolation. These symptoms can be misunderstood as a need for personal space. Quiet withdrawal is not always a downtime thing needed to regroup.
Bethany eventually learned that self-imposed, irrational expectations could overwhelm anyone. No one person is capable of carrying the weight of such demands.
Christian counseling brought Bethany to a place where her overwhelming sense of a need to succeed no longer overshadowed rational thought.
We must not fail to recognize signs of depression. They can be as subtle as they are destructive. There are abundant recourses available; Christian psychiatry can be beneficial; the local library and online medical sites have a wealth of information.
But as valuable as these are, God’s Word is priceless. Our children must know they matter. And we must not fail to tell them.

Prayer

“Lord, save our children from the lie of inconsequence. Help us end this epidemic by revealing Your great love for them through those who know the truth. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Absolutes

Then they can train the younger women to … be self-controlled and pure.
Titus 2:4

Shania realized she’d made a terrible mistake accepting Reggie’s offer of a ride home. She grabbed his hand, pulling it away from her breast. “No!” she said adamantly. “Stop it!” The timbre in her voice left no doubt that she meant what she’d said. “I want to go home now!”
“Aw, c’mon, Shania. What’s wrong with a little exploration?” Reggie’s hormones were cranked, and he wasn’t going to be easily dissuaded. “You didn’t mind it when we kissed. What’s the big deal?” he asked, genuinely perplexed.
But as she scooted away, he sensed his expectations dying an emotion-filled death. This doesn’t make any sense. He thought. After all, she kissed me, didn’t she? What’s up with that?
“What makes this so wrong?” he said, confusion and frustration driving him.
“I’m a Christian, Reggie,” she stated with conviction. “I made a commitment to Jesus not to have sex before marriage. I want my husband to be the only man I ever have sex with, and I don’t intend to break that vow. You offered me a ride home,” she reminded him, “not a sexual encounter. Now, please take me home.”
Completely baffled but resigned not to push her anymore, Reggie restarted the car and drove Shania home.

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It’s difficult for teens to remain pure until marriage while television and blockbuster movies are constantly sending the message, “Everybody’s having sex!”
Society has removed moral absolutes because of their restrictions, yet refuses to make the connection to the rising rate of teen pregnancy, teen abortion, teen rape, and teen suicide.
When we fail to teach the spiritual reason for abstinence, we remove the ability to understand why morality matters. The consequences of sex outside of marriage can run the gambit from disease to unwanted pregnancy, not to mention being open to spiritual assault.
Paul instructed the older women to train the young ones. Sadly, many have failed in their responsibilities by modeling a life of promiscuity, so the cycle repeats itself.
The cycle will end when those who understand absolutes step up and show our young women how to reclaim their purity.

Prayer

“Forgive our turn from moral absolutes, Lord. Help us reestablish them in our homes so our children might understand Your purpose for their lives. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

From The Outside

Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.

Romans 12:9

Stan and Jennifer had been married forty-one years, today. In the span of those four decades resided the memories of events that could have ended what was now a wonderful and endearing romance.

Many times Jennifer would have been justified in leaving. As a matter of fact, many of her closest friends, and even some of her family, had suggested she do just that.

But Jen, as Stan was fond of calling her, never considered it an option. She’d meant and intended to keep the vows she’d taken at the wedding altar.

Stan, honest about his lack of commitment in the early years, gave her credit for “hanging in there when it didn’t make a lot of sense.” He readily admitted to his reckless and wild ways. “Jen taught me a lot about love and forgiveness. Truth is…” he paused, reflection showing on his face, “I’da left me a long time ago, but Jen…she could see somethin’ I couldn’t.” Here, he chocked up, “She’s as much the reason as God that I’m standin’ here today. Had she left I’m not sure I would have cared enough to change.”

Watching them, as they lovingly held hands, it was easy to see what Jennifer saw was worth fighting for. Her commitment had given her vision, vision with perspective and hope.

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In The Shack, William Paul Young writes, grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.

It’s easy for those on the outside to judge and ridicule, even going so far as to encourage separation and divorce because they wouldn’t tolerate such glaring and unjust behavior!

With a godly perspective we, like Jen, can see something worth fighting for.

Grace is unmerited favor…given to someone who does not deserve it…given when we rarely feel like giving it. We must, as Paul exhorts, hate the evil part, giving it to God, and cling to what is good!

Grace and commitment are hard work.

God set us an example of grace and commitment. His Name is Jesus.

“Prayer”

Thank You for Jesus, Father. Help me to always extend grace instead of withholding it, and help me remain committed when it would be easier to cut and run. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

The Greatest Acquisition

Do not store up treasures on earth.
Matthew 6:19

You could describe the Connor family in two words: scuba fanatics. They spent much of their free time diving along the Carolina coast, one location in particular.
“Can we go diving tonight, Dad?” Rafe asked.
“Sure,” Logan said. “I was actually thinking about making another dive this morning. A little more treasure, and we’ll cash in.”
Rafe’s father, Logan, had been a merchant marine when he was younger. He’d listened closely to his co-workers’ endless tales and folklore of bygone years as they’d recounted fables of buried treasure along the eastern seaboard.
After several years, Logan decided to take a stab at treasure hunting. On one of his forays he’d actually found treasure: two pieces of eight, to be precise. He’d stumbled upon the location quite by accident. He had staked a pseudoclaim according to maritime law, but lived in fear of someone finding his secret cache. So far no one had. Weekend dives provided small amounts of treasure that were kept in the family safe.
On the day they cashed in, the Connor family found out their claim held no legal bearing. News of the discovery spread quickly. Salvage crews scrambled to stake legal claim to the wreckage. One crew managed to procure legal claim and went on to discover some 2.5 million dollars in treasure, none of which the Connor family shared.

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Our devotion to the acquisition of material goods is staggering; we place personal wealth ahead of the needs of others yet wonder at the broad-based suffering throughout the world today.
As with the Connor family, we can lay claim to future riches only to find out too late that what we hoped in could be taken away.
Jesus spoke clearly where wealth is concerned, instructing us to invest heavily in heavenly endeavors, endeavors that cannot be stolen.
By seeking earthly wealth, we stake our future in material possessions instead of relying on God for our daily needs.
God’s promise is that if we acquire the hope in His Son Jesus Christ, it will never be taken away.

Prayer

“I like being comfortable, Lord. Help me change that mind-set to one of helping meet others’ needs instead of amassing great wealth on earth. Show me what You’d have me do. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

The Cancer of Greed

Put to death … sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.
Colossians 3:5

Kenny was executor of the estate when his father died. His mother’s passing a few years before meant the entire estate would now need to be settled. It was a sizable estate to be settled among the three children: Kenny, his older sister, Kate, and their younger brother, Kurt.
For years Kenny had dreaded this day, but now that it was here he saw an unexpected opportunity. With startling clarity, he realized the will was rather generic in nature, and there was room for interpretation.
Having lost his life savings in a recent securities venture, Kenny was financially insolvent, completely broke. Here was an opportunity to recoup his financial losses by siphoning off funds from the estate.
So, deciding to make the most of it, Kenny fudged the books to reflect fictitious debt his father had accumulated. By filtering the finances to cover those debts, Kenny would make a substantial amount of money and receive three times more than his siblings in the settlement.
His plan almost worked. Kenny was unaware that his father had taken Kurt into his confidence weeks before his death because he was afraid of this very thing happening. When confronted, Kenny initially denied any improprieties. The resulting feud tore the family apart. Kenny was unremorseful over his veiled attempt to defraud his own family, and greed claimed another victory.

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Greed is a cancerous evil. It changes a person’s character, gradually increasing its grip, claiming more and more of the person’s heart, until finally he or she is consumed by it.
Greed tells us we are deserving, subtly gaining our allegiance, all the while making it harder to recognize its influence in our own lives.
And it doesn’t always show itself in a deliberate manner as in today’s story; it frequently comes cloaked in possessive behavior such as stinginess or entitlement.
Paul tells us to kill it.
Through prayer and purposeful giving, without thought of personal gain, we can resolve any issues of greed in our lives. By committing random, anonymous acts of generosity, we put to death the idol of greed.

Prayer

“Help me hold on loosely to what You’ve given me, Lord. Teach me to have a giving heart instead of a selfish one. In Jesus’ Name, amen. “

Offhanded Prejudice

Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing … this should not be.
James 3:10

“Okay,” Kevin started his joke. “There was a Jew, a German, and a blonde—”
“Wait a minute, Kevin,” Martin interrupted. “Look, I know you’re just trying to be funny, and maybe you don’t mean anything by it, but I don’t appreciate those kinds of jokes, and I’d appreciate it if you’d not finish it.”
“Yeah, me too,” said Carlos. “To be honest,” he continued, “I used to think it was okay. But then I realized that it’s a form of implied prejudice hidden in unsavory humor. It’s a slam against individuals or a race of people meant to generate laughter. I have to admit that when someone told a Hispanic joke in my presence, it made me angry.”
“Excuuuuse me!” Kevin dragged the word out for effect. “I didn’t realize you two were too good to listen to a simple joke anymore.”
“Not too good, Kevin,” Martin gently corrected. “I’m just trying to be more thoughtful of the language and words I use these days. You yourself know that I used to freely slander ethnic groups and blondes because it got laughs. But then God showed me that these people I’d been slamming are no different than me; they’re actually just like me, and they’re undeserving of my offhanded prejudice. Whether you believe it or not, what we say influences others toward those we speak. And I, for one, don’t want to be responsible for planting seeds of prejudice anymore.”

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If confronted, many of us would do as Kevin did and immediately defend ourselves. “It’s just a joke for goodness sake!” we’d say. But that’s just not true. It is an audible statement of opinion—whether unconscious or otherwise—and we are responsible for it.
James addressed this issue two thousand years ago: double-talk, or what society now calls being two-faced—saying one thing while pretending to say something else.
If in the future you are tempted to use this form of prejudice or are present when others do, remember God’s exhortation through James and have nothing to do with it.

Prayer

“Lord, reveal to me the consequences of offhanded prejudice so that I might know in my heart how wrong this form of insensitivity really is. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Refuse to Quit

I will strengthen you and help you.
Isaiah 41:10

Darla slouched at the piano, discouraged; her little fingers didn’t stretch far enough. Each time she tried to play full chords, a sour note resounded from the piano. “I’ll never get it right,” she said in distress. “My hands are just too small.”
With complete understanding, Mrs. Netching placed her arm around Darla’s shoulders and said, “Darla, when I was your age, my fingers didn’t reach either, and I wanted to quit. But my mother wouldn’t allow it. She told me I would one day appreciate the hard work of today. So I determined to make the best of things by playing well the things I could, understanding that someday my fingers would grow long enough to reach all the keys. I want to share with you what my piano teacher taught me.” Rising from the bench, she stood behind Darla, reached around her, and asked her to play the single-note melody for the music in front of her.
As Darla began to play the simple notes, Mrs. Netching began to accompany her, adding the chords that were impossible for Darla to play. The resulting harmony was beautiful!
“Can we do that again?” Darla asked, excited by the rich sound they had created.
“Why sure, honey,” Mrs. Netching responded. “Just remember this day when your lessons are hard. Don’t let today’s limitations dictate tomorrow’s potential. Keep practicing; commit yourself to doing the best you can. Refuse to quit, and I promise someday you will be an accomplished musician.”

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Life is full of difficult lessons. And there are moments that the only thing we want is to quit. But quitting in the midst of trouble is accepting defeat without bringing all the power of heaven to bear on our situation.
Like Mrs. Netching, God wants to orchestrate our lives, accompanying and encouraging us until we are capable of reaching further in faith.
As the Master comes alongside us, it’s His skill that causes our lives to become something beautiful. And the music is heard the way it’s meant to be. God wants us to fight when things get rough and refuse to quit.

Prayer

“I need an awful lot of help, Lord. Please be patient with me while I get this thing called life right. Amen.”

I’ll Never!

Children, obey your parents in the Lord.
Ephesians 6:1

“I hate you!” Benny screamed at his dad. “When I have kids, I’ll never treat ’em like this!” And with that, he slammed his door.
Geneva looked at her husband and impishly said, “Sounds like the boy I met in high school. Whatever happened to him?” she teased, hoping to ease her husband’s frustration at having his son stomp off in rebellion.
“For two cents … ” He decided not to finish a statement he knew he didn’t mean. “Yeah, I was an awful lot like him, wasn’t I?” He reminisced. “I even remember saying the exact same thing to my dad.” Then it hit him. “Am I just like my dad?” he asked.
“Well, I happen to love your father—” she began.
“You weren’t his son.” He parried.
“No, but he’s a good man, Paul. And you could do much worse than to emulate your father. As a matter of fact, you are very much like him: kind, compassionate, loving, tender, thoughtful, and considerate. Those are wonderful attributes, and I hope Benny inherits every one of them,” she said with conviction.
Paul knew she meant every word. “I guess those traits got lost in the discipline. Yes, Dad is a good man. I guess Benny is just like me; I never liked the word no either,” he lightheartedly said.

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Our parents love us. And because they do, they seek to keep us from harm. Rules serve a necessary purpose. That we don’t like them remains irrelevant to the fact we need them.
Sometimes the rules can be imposing. And in the midst of that imposition, we can get out of sorts, forgetting that although everything is permissible, not everything is beneficial (1 Corinthians 10:23).
Most, if not all, of us have made the claim, “I’ll never treat my kids like this!” And with few exceptions, we’ve treated them exactly that way: with love and concern for their well-being. To do otherwise would be to fail them. So when you find yourself facing an obstinate child, consider this: you were once just like them; then try to smile as you enforce the rules.

Prayer

“Father of grace, teach me to be the parent I need to be. Guide my actions and help me to not exasperate my children. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Abstinence Is Work

Abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul.
1 Peter 2:11

“I feel like I’m in this constant battle,” Carlene said incredulously. “It’s like I’m constantly faced with decisions of right and wrong,” she confided.
Rochelle understood her friend’s quandary. “I know. You see, before you came to Christ, you lived your life apart from God; you were ignorant of His ways.” Rochelle let that sink in.
“When we give our lives to Christ, He gives us His Holy Spirit. The Spirit convicts us of actions we failed to recognize as sinful before.” Rochelle watched as the realization of what that meant dawned on Carlene.
“This isn’t easy,” Carlene remarked woefully. “It’s like this constant battle rages inside me. I feel”—she paused, searching for just the right word—”dirty when I do some of the things I used to do. Does that make any sense?”
“It makes perfect sense,” Rochelle answered. “Living a godly life comes with its battles. It’s all part of learning to live for God instead of ourselves. The things that we want are filtered through God’s Spirit. When it’s something God considers sin, it registers on our heart, letting us know we should resist and not give in to the desire.”
“I’m gonna need a lot of help,” Carlene said, a mixture of wit and worry in her voice.
“God always provides assistance when we ask for it,” Rochelle assured her. “But it’s our responsibility to ask. God isn’t some genie Who makes life easy for us. He’s a loving Father Who instructs His children in what’s best and then allows them to make informed choices.”

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Sin is sensual and seductive. And Peter instructs us to engage in the battle instead of passively giving in.
The Christian life is not one of ease; it demands a life of physical and spiritual discipline, one of abstinence in which we actively war against Satan and his tempting offers.
Although our salvation may be complete when we give our life to Jesus, we’ve only begun to take on His likeness. The more we abstain from sinful temptation, the closer the resemblance gets.
Peter encourages us to be built up into a spiritual house, one that looks like Christ.

Prayer

“Lord, give me wisdom and strength to wage war against the enemy. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

The Selfish Trinity

Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought.
Romans 12:3

During a work session to repair a parishioner’s house, the pastor pulled one volunteer aside, away from listening ears. “John, I need to speak with you about something.”
Having John’s undivided attention, he forged ahead. “God wants to use each of us, and your assistance here is very much appreciated.”
He noticed a look of boredom dawn in John’s eyes. “John, your attitude and actions scream, “Look at me!” You make people uncomfortable, and you effectively steal the blessing God—”
“Look, Pastor,” John cut him off. “I hear you. But quite honestly, I do things the way I want, or I don’t do them. Is that a problem?” You could tell he expected the pastor to back off, believing they couldn’t get along without him.
What happened next took John by surprise. “It’s a big problem, John. And I surely won’t force you to make changes you’re not willing to make. But if you choose to continue treating others with disdain, I must ask you to leave. And I mean our church, John, not just this project.”
Taken aback, John responded in anger. “Fine! I don’t need your high-and-mighty church!” he said forcefully and left, slamming the door on the way out.
The mood in the house changed almost immediately; it was as though a dark cloud had been lifted.

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John suffers from a case of the selfish trinity: me, myself, and I.
Some would say the pastor was too strict. On the contrary: pride is a sinister root, which if allowed to propagate, will pollute and choke out healthy roots.
It led to the fall of mankind; Satan decided to elevate himself above the throne of God and in doing so set in motion a series of events that led to his and a third of the angels’ eviction from heaven; thus sin entered the world.
It is so subtle that we rarely, if ever, realize our own pride.
So in His mercy, God sends His Spirit to convict us. When convicted of any pride in our lives, we should humble ourselves before God and deal with the issue.

Prayer

“Is there any pride in me, Lord? If so, help me put it to death so I might be humble before You. Amen.”

Extinguished Flames

The devil prowls … like a roaring lion
1 Peter 5:8

As the pastor and his family returned home, he found an envelope tacked to the parsonage’s front door.
Curious, he pulled it from the door and read. As he read, his face turned ashen; the shock and confusion on his face caused his wife to ask what was wrong. There were no words to soften this blow:
We, the leadership of the church, no longer require your services. We therefore inform you that you have one week to vacate the parsonage. We will find your replacement in due time and do not wish any future contact with you.
Signed,
The Leadership
With no further explanation forthcoming and in total shock with inexplicable heartache, they complied with the request, leaving the little church God had called them to.
The young pastor agonized. Haven’t I spoken the true Word of God? Hasn’t the community responded affirmatively since my appointment? And hasn’t God shown me areas of needed growth I’ve been addressing? With astounding clarity, he understood; he had made the leadership uncomfortable, requiring growth and a new level of commitment. He had become a threat to their little church.
Rumors spread by his accusers followed the young pastor, and he was unable to secure future appointments. Jaded, he returned to secular work, never to minister again from the pulpit.

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What a profound loss. What an egregious act of abhorrent behavior. What an insidious use of God’s children by Satan. Our enemy prowls, just as today’s text tells us, like a roaring lion. But he also slips subtly in and out of our lives, undetected and unidentified, using good-willed people to extinguish the fire of God from the hearts of men. Failure to recognize or admit Satan’s influence in our lives will prolong our struggles. Without giving evil more power than it deserves, we must be aware of Satan’s willingness to use us against each other.
Satan is real; he hates the things and people of God, and he will use us to attack each other. We must learn to recognize his tactics and then resist him!

Prayer

“Lord, make me aware of the enemy’s subtle attacks. Help me to resist them. And use me as an instrument of grace. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

In Times of Need

Are not all angels ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation?
Hebrews 1:14

Lew had outlived his three-month life expectancy by two years before hospice was called in. For those two years, Lew lived: visiting museums, taking walks with his beloved, Patty, and working in his garden from time to time.
On the eve of his death, Lew kept calling for Judy. Judy was, as she put it, Lew’s wash girl; her ministry had been to tenderly meet Lew’s bathing needs. Knowing Judy wasn’t scheduled to work that day, Patty called hospice, asking that they send her anyway. “Lew is asking for Judy. Please tell her.”
When later the doorbell rang, Patty was pleasantly surprised to find Brenda, Lew’s RN, smiling through the door at her! “I just left the Healing Hands of Christ seminar and felt led to stop by and see Lew. Would that be okay?” she asked.
“Oh, yes!” Patty exclaimed, welcoming Brenda with a hug.
After simmering a pot of hyssop, frankincense, and myrrh, Brenda anointed Lew with the spices, salving his hands and feet and head while hymns softly played. As she finished, Lew lifted his right hand, pointing toward the corner of the room.
“Do you see someone, Lew?” Brenda asked. His head nodded yes. “Is this someone you know?” she prompted. He shook his head no. “Is this someone speaking to you?” she asked.
“Can’t you hear him?” Lew said in wonder.
“No, we can’t,” they replied.
“It’s the Angel of the Lord, come to take me home.” Trying to sit up, Lew remarked, “You can’t take a trip lying down!”

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God’s conspicuous attention through the persons of Judy and Brenda, as well as revealing His Angel’s presence as He took Lew home, was personal.
And this is the hope we have in Christ Jesus when we choose to accept Him as our Lord and Savior.
It is appointed unto man once to die; we will not escape this life alive. But we can take great comfort in the knowledge that having made the choice to become one of God’s children, in times of need, we will be tended by ministering spirits.

Prayer

“Loving Father, be near to those who are in need today, regardless of the reason. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

The Root of Jesse

From his roots a Branch will bear fruit.
Isaiah 11:1

They planted the sapling in the corner of the yard. “Daddy,” his young daughter questioned, “can we use it for a Christmas tree someday?”
He chuckled at her optimism; she saw potential in this small, vulnerable sapling. “You bet, honey. We’ll nurture it to make it the best Christmas tree ever.”
She cocked her head curiously. “What does nurture mean, Daddy?”
“It means we’ll need to love this tiny tree, honey, and treat it with tenderness. We’ll need to cut away dead branches and unwanted growth. We’ll have to make sure the roots have a chance to grow deep so it will grow big and strong.”
Then, as an afterthought, he added, “The weather will actually cause the roots to grow deeper. As the wind and rain, sun, and cold weather beat down on the sapling above ground, the little tree will tell its roots to grow deeper, giving it the ability to stand against the harshest weather.”
So for eight years they nurtured the tree, shaping it by cutting back unwanted growth.
Over time, the pine grew strong and tall. Then something unexpected happened. Birds began building their nests in the tree’s sheltering branches and ate its pine nuts for life-giving nourishment.
When the time came to harvest the tree, the girl decided to leave it for God’s wildlife. And instead of cutting it down, they decorated it right where it stood, giving the birds the most beautiful home in the neighborhood.

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Our heavenly Father is also optimistic when He looks at us. He sees great potential in each of us. He wants to be our refuge when spiritual winds blow, nurturing us, growing us to maturity.
When we are assaulted by spiritual elements, He patiently waits for us to seek His assistance. As we come, He prunes away unwanted, sinful growth, leaving us stronger and better equipped to stand against the trials of life.
As we grow, we can see our roots being anchored in the root of Jesse. Only there will we find the spiritual nourishment necessary for our own sustenance and be able to bear fruit for His kingdom.

Prayer

“Lord, grow my roots deeper. Make me a strong branch, able to bear fruit for those in need. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

The Coming Storm

The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds beat against the house; yet it did not fall.
Matthew 7:25

Her husband had always known what to do: stay and ride it out or to seek shelter inland, away from the fury of the storm. Yet he had died six years ago, and this decision was hers alone.
As the surf pounded the sand with increasing intensity, she sensed the fury of the coming storm. And although the storm was still hundreds of miles out, she realized it might be a direct hit. They’d prepared for storms many times over the years, closing shutters against the strong winds. They had even rebuilt twice, saying, “We will not give in to this unwanted aggressor.”
She watched the waves pound with a force that belied the storm’s awesome power and knew this one would be bad. Having been through some rough storms in the past, she decided to board up and head inland, taking the kids to her sister’s, not risking their lives to protect inanimate objects.
The storm bore down on the coast, rending wooden structures as if they were made of cardboard. When she was finally granted access to her neighborhood, she found only piles of debris shoved up against the palms; not one shred of the house was left standing.
Only now did she realize with clarity how important the decisions of life could be. She was thankful for having made the right one.

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Many times, spiritual storms strike without advance warning, giving no sign of the coming struggle. They develop quickly, like a tornado out of a supercell thunderstorm, leaving no time to prepare or run for shelter.
Because of this frequent lack of warning, we must take steps ahead of time to shore up the structures most vulnerable and valuable: our spiritual being.
Jesus says the only way to assure survival from these storms is to build our lives on a solid foundation by immersing ourselves in His Word, spending time with Him in prayer, and meeting with others of like mind. We can prepare for the coming storm.

Prayer

“I need Your protection, Lord Jesus. Teach me how to stand on You and Your Word as the Foundation for everything I do. Amen.”

Words of Life!

The words I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life.
John 6:63

“Mom?” Steph said, calling for her attention. “Jesus said that our flesh counts for nothing and that only the Spirit gives us life. Then He said the words He spoke are spirit and life. Is He referring to the written word alone? Or do His spoken words have more meaning for us?” Steph had been given a religion class assignment to explain what spiritual life meant to her. She’d focused on the New Testament, the red-lettered spoken words of Jesus, to be more precise.
“Well, what do you think He’s saying?” her mom prompted, wanting her answer the question for herself before she received any outside influence.
“I guess I think it’s a combination of both,” she said with a tinge of unresolved doubt.
“So why do you feel He meant both?” Mom asked.
“Well, first of all, I believe He’s talking about the natural life versus the spiritual life, specifically, eternal life versus eternal damnation. And that if we rely on ourselves for all the answers, we’ll become introspective and self-deceived by thinking we can walk through life apart from God without any need of a Savior.” Then she added, “I believe when we speak God’s written word, it comes alive, you know, sharper than any two-edged sword. So what do you think?” she asked.
“Sounds to me like you’ve got things well in hand, honey,” Steph’s mom said, noting the twinkle of satisfaction in her daughter’s eyes.

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How many times have you read, read, and reread the same verse of Scripture only to have it jump off the pages in one blindingly revealing moment? Everyone who has ever been a student of Scripture will have this phenomenon occur many times over his or her studies of the Bible. It is the inherent Word of God, our lifeblood, which the Holy Spirit opens for our understanding as we prayerfully read. God intended us to study His Word in order that we would, through that nourishing act, receive the life of the Spirit.

Prayer

“Lord, reveal spirit and life to me as I read Your written account of the story of Your love for me and all mankind. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

The Enemy Within

Who am I?
Exodus 3:11

“Why did you just up and quit?” Reece was trying to understand how someone with Tim’s drive and intuition would abandon his life’s goal. So far he hadn’t figured it out. So once again, he asked, “Why’d you pull up short, Tim? And why now?”
“You really want the truth?” Tim seemed to resent the questioning of his motives.
But as Reece looked into Tim’s eyes, he recognized something from having seen it in the mirror himself: fear.
“You’re afraid, aren’t you?” he said, bewildered. “I can’t believe it. You of all people, afraid of what the future holds. So you’re pulling the plug before you lose control?”
Reece was dumbfounded. He’d never suspected his closest friend wasn’t as sure of himself on the inside as he appeared on the outside.
This had him stymied. “Tim … ” He struggled for the right words with which to encourage his friend. “I’ve watched you take on challenges that would have brought many a good man to his knees. You always stressed that to believe in myself only required the knowledge that God’s always got my back. You gonna tell me now that you really don’t believe that?”
“It’s not that simple,” Tim blurted. “What if people don’t respond favorably? Then what?”
“Well, my best friend is always telling me, ‘Just put one foot in front of the other and see where God leads you.’” Reece said, knowing that had been what Tim needed to hear.

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Our greatest enemy to accomplishing God’s tasks is the one within. We all, at some level, fight Moses’ battle against inner fear. Satan introduces doubt couched in the fear of rejection and failure or even our past. He intends to use them as a means to stop us from reaching for a higher level of accomplishment.
Self-sufficiency is a weighty and dangerous thing. Only when we realize that God will equip us completely for His work will we forge ahead.
Only God can defeat this enemy within. And then it’s only if we allow Him into the battle.

Prayer

“Lord, I hate being afraid. And I don’t readily admit to fear. Please send someone to encourage me to reach higher for Your purposes if I begin to falter. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Listen to God, Then Do What He Says

To prepare God’s people for works of service …
Ephesians 4:12

It had been a rough year. Medical issues had left a seemingly insurmountable amount of debt. Yet they trusted in the Lord’s provision. This morning’s mail brought an unexpected bill. Molly had forgotten to include the quarterly water bill in the budget. She prayed, asking God to meet the need. Then Molly sent her pastor an e-mail asking if the church’s benevolence fund might cover half the water bill; they could handle the rest.
The phone rang. It was the bank asking Molly to please come and pick up an envelope someone had left for her.
So, grabbing her coat, she headed out. Upon arriving, she was handed a nondescript, white envelope. Thanking the young woman, she returned to the car to open it. To her amazement, she found two five-hundred-dollar money orders with an unsigned note. “Molly, we know how God uses you and how you say, ‘Listen to God, then do what He says.’ We are listening to God. Please receive this gift and use it as you see fit.”
Molly, tears in her eyes, ran back into the bank and asked the young lady, “Who did this?”
“I’m sorry, but they asked to remain anonymous,” the girl answered.
In her excitement, she drove to the church to share the miracle with her pastor! Unknown to her, he had responded to her e-mail, telling her to drop by with the bill so they could pay it. When she showed up, he assumed she was bringing the bill.
His smile grew as Molly shared her story of how God had moved on the hearts of His people to meet her need before it was known.

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God wants to move us to do good works on His behalf. He’s given us Scripture to help us understand how to hear His voice. He has also raised up others to aide us in distinguishing between His voice and the world.
Through their instruction, His Word, the gift of the Holy Spirit, and with persistent practice, we can learn to filter out the world’s noise.
The Father’s desire is for us to listen to His voice and then do what He says.

Prayer

“Speak, Lord. Then help me do what You say. Amen.”

Unsuspecting Martyrs

Isaac spoke up and said … ”Father?”
Genesis 22:7

Gabriel watched in horror as the woman in front of him pulled into oncoming traffic. He wasn’t sure whether it was a mistake or intentional. And there wasn’t much he could do to stop it from happening. Honking his horn for lack of another option, Gabriel prayed she wouldn’t be hit.
The first two oncoming vehicles reacted instinctively, slamming on their brakes and swerving to miss her. Those following closely behind were faced with snap judgments. Many responded defensively, pulling over in time to allow the wrong-way vehicle to pass by, unharmed yet unyielding.
Gabriel watched as car after car avoided her. Then, without warning, the woman pointed her car right at the overpass abutment and slammed into it at somewhere around seventy miles an hour.
Paramedics responded quickly but were unable to save the woman. She had not been wearing her seatbelt and had been ejected through the windshield. State patrol investigators later determined the woman was mentally unstable. They found a suicide note on the passenger seat, the distraught woman saying she could no longer live without her children. Further investigation revealed they had been killed in an accident seven years before. She had been driving.

†

Life can be cruel. And many suffer for reasons not of their own making.
Just like Isaac, this woman’s children did not ask for their fate. Yet tragedies happen, and we must do our best to deal with the loss.
But what of the unsuspecting martyr and what of those times we suffer when we feel it isn’t fair? Jesus told us we would have trials in this world. He did not make the statement to scare us, rather to prepare us to choose how we will respond as we meet life’s trials in our walk with Him.
If we find ourselves walking a road full of peace and prosperity, walk in grace. If, however, we find ourselves on a road marked with sorrow and grief, walk in communion with God, trusting Him to go through it with you.

Prayer

“Walk with me, Lord. Help me cope with the troubles of today. Show me how to be gracious in the good times and to lean on You in the bad. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Redeemed

It was not with perishable things … that you were redeemed.
1 Peter 1:18

Sally had been attending services for about two months when the pastor and an elder dropped by to visit her husband, Bob. They brought him an information packet that included a CD of the most recent sermon. Following an extended visit, they said good-bye, and invited for Bob to come check them out.
“Vietnam left deep scars on too many good men and women,” the elder remarked, alluding to Bob’s comments about taking part in the fighting and his struggles with God since then.
The following Sunday, Sally showed up alone. The pastor asked, “Do you think Bob will come?”
“I don’t know. Maybe someday. But not today,” she said with deep sadness.
“Don’t give up,” the pastor encouraged.
Halfway through praise and worship, Bob walked through the door. And that very day, he gave his life to Christ!
There was a church picnic that afternoon right across the street from Bob and Sally’s home. Midway through the picnic, Bob appeared from the house and approached the pastor. “I wasn’t going to come today,” he began. “As a matter of fact, I turned around three times. But I wanted to see if you were as good in person as you were on the CD,” he said sheepishly. Growing serious, he reached in his pocket and stretched his closed hand toward the pastor. “I want you to have this. I was going to use it. But I don’t need it anymore.” And with that, he dropped a nine-millimeter bullet with his name written on it into the pastor’s hand.
Since that day, Bob has grown to know the One Who saved him with His redeeming power.

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Nothing of intrinsic value could have redeemed us. The price sin required was Jesus’ blood.
Some believe they’ve done too much, committed too heinous a crime to be of any use to God. But no matter where we’ve been or what we’ve done, Jesus’ blood is sufficient to cover that sin.
God wants us to know our worthiness has nothing to do with salvation through His Son. He just calls us to come and be redeemed.

Prayer

“Lord, I feel unworthy. But Your Word says if I accept Your Son, You will redeem me anyway. Forgive me, Lord. I want to be redeemed. Amen.”

Just One Thing

But one thing I do.
Philippians 3:13b

Byron had asked Shane to run for a seat on city council. “Look, Shane, I understand your reluctance, but think about it.”
“I hear what you’re saying. I’m just not sure I agree. There’ll be many opposed to my holding political office if they find out about my past. You know campaigns are anything but private, and the other camp will surely dredge it up.”
Shane wasn’t afraid of being found out; he just didn’t want to drag his family through an unnecessary mudslinging contest.
Sixteen years ago, he’d been arrested for possession of marijuana and cocaine and had done a short stint in the county jail. He’d gotten clean and stayed that way. Yet he knew society could be a cruel reminder.
But Byron had witnessed the change in Shane and appreciated how he approached life today. “At least discuss it with Carol and see how she feels.”
That evening, Shane posed the question to his wife. “What would you think about me running for the vacant city council seat next November?”
“I think you will be a good councilman,” she said with finality and a twinkle in her eye. She understood his concern; she just wasn’t going to let it dictate their lives. If it came up, so be it. It was what he did, not who he was.
Shane was sworn in on a windy and cold January evening and would faithfully serve the City of Grayson, being reelected to six consecutive terms.

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We all have pasts and have fallen short of the mark. Too many of us let those mistakes define who we are today. If our personal sin were laid bare for all to see, we would cease throwing stones of incrimination, and we would judge less critically.

Paul was aware of his shortcomings to the point of listing many of them in the hope that others would understand the importance of not allowing past mistakes to affect present performance. So I emphasize his words for you: “Forgetting what is behind, and straining forward, I press on!” Do just that one thing; press on!

Prayer

“Forgive my mistakes, Lord. Help me not allow what I’ve done in the past dictate who I am in You. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

The Mantle

When they had crossed, Elijah said to Elisha, “Tell me, what can I do for you before I am taken from you?” “Let me inherit a double portion of your spirit,” Elisha replied.
2 Kings 2:9

From the mezzanine, they watched the crowd filtering in. The well-known evangelist placed his hand on the boy’s shoulder. He spoke softly, yet passionately, “Each one of these people here tonight has needs, son.” Pointing, he asked, “Do you see that man in the red shirt, son?”
“Yes, sir,” the boy of eleven answered.
“How about the lady with the blue coat?”
“Yes, sir. I see her,” came his reply.
“And how about the girl with the ponytails, there in the second row?”
“I see her, sir.”
Then this man of God spoke with an even deeper passion. “Ask God to show you what they need. Ask Him to show you their hearts, son!” He paused a moment and then continued, “I always survey the crowd before speaking. Then I ask God to speak through me what they need to hear.”
The boy looked up, awed that this man had taken time out of his busy schedule to share his heart with him.
The evangelist had found out this boy felt God’s call to become a pastor. He understood the importance of nurturing the vision. In those few moments, he did for this young man what no one else could. He passed on the mantle.

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God bestows His mantle upon those He calls. This godly man understood the privilege he’d been given. He remembered his father doing this very thing with him when he had answered God’s call to the ministry. This was a night the young boy would never forget. He was ready to answer the call. God equips everyone for ministry. He provides all the skills we need for each situation we find ourselves in. He will never send us out to do anything we aren’t ready for. We may feel apprehensive, but if we move forward in faith, we will find that the Holy Spirit is right there giving us courage and strength.

Prayer

“Sometimes I’m afraid of the unknown, Lord. I’m uncomfortable about being embarrassed. Help me put aside the fear so I might teach others about You. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

We Must Ask

Therefore wisdom and knowledge will be given you.
2 Chronicles 1:12

It had been a year since the couple had battled issues of infidelity, and he was wondering how his younger brother and his wife were doing. On the surface, everything appeared fine. But he knew that the early stages of temptation rarely show outward signs.
“Have you spoken to Gail about how she and Jeremy are doing lately?” he asked his wife. “They appear to be okay. I just wonder if they really are.”
“Actually, I asked her last week. She assures me things are great,” she responded.
He remembered his own battle with infidelity; it had almost ruined his marriage in the early years. He’d given in to temptation and made a terrible mistake. Fortunately, his wife believed in their marriage vows in a way he would later come to understand, and they had worked through the pain of his indiscretion.
He had become accountable back then by giving two men permission to ask personal questions about his faithfulness and to take any measures necessary to remind him of his commitment to one woman. He’d needed that help because the enemy had visited with the temptation of desire until he gained victory through perseverance. He thanked God once again for the commitment of those two men; for without them asking, “Are you experiencing any sexual temptation?” he would have been left alone to resist the temptation. He prayed that God would send someone to keep his brother and sister-in-law accountable.

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We all face some nature of temptation; none are exempt. We need accountability with someone we are comfortable confiding in because self-sufficiency in spiritual matters will eventually result in our failure to resist.
Solomon asked God for wisdom instead of wealth, riches, or honor. Because of that, God granted his desire. He also gave him wealth, riches, and honor.
But wisdom is the key. Without it, we have no basis for understanding with which to make sound decisions.
If someone we know has fallen to temptation in the past, the question is, “Dare we ask him how things are today?” The answer is yes. Wisdom says we must ask.

Prayer

“Help me be a friend that helps others avoid temptation, Lord. And please send someone to help guide me along the path of wisdom. Amen.”

Enough to Send His Son

This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son … for our sins.
1 John 4:10

“What makes you so sure?” Jenna’s question about God loving us apart from our performance was valid. She wanted to know why God didn’t require good behavior a prerequisite to salvation.
“God told us through His Word, Jenna,” Shari explained, opening her Bible and reading, ‘This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us.’”
Shari searched for the right words. “Jenna, we could never measure up to God’s standards. His holiness requires perfection, and we aren’t perfect. Scripture says, ‘All have sinned.’ That means we needed a perfect sacrifice to save us. That was God’s Son. God’s love is so fierce that He would rather send Jesus to die in our place than allow us to spend eternity apart from Him.” Shari felt it was time to ask Jenna to make a decision. “Would you like to know such love?”
“You know,” Jenna began, “I’ve watched you and Walt, and I see something.” She paused. “You have such a peace, even when things aren’t going so great. I’d really like to know that peace in my life.”
Shari silently asked for the right words. “Jenna, God wants you to know that peace too. All you need to do is accept His Son into your heart. You can’t earn salvation; it’s a free gift given at a high price.” Seeing tears begin to form in Jenna’s eyes, she pressed on. “Just ask Jesus to take over from today on. Tell Him you know you’re a sinner in need of His sacrifice.”
Jenna bowed her head, and Jesus became her Lord and Savior.

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There is nothing we can do to earn God’s love or approval. He showed us His love on the cross of Calvary.
He does require a humble heart, a heart turned to Him, a heart willing to accept His great love and not one trying to earn it.
It costs us nothing. It cost Him everything because He cared enough to send His Son.

Prayer

“Father God, I lift my life to You in this moment and commit it to You. Wash my sins white as snow with Your Son’s blood. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

October 2

But he who feeds on this bread will live forever.
John 6:58
For whom blackest darkness has been reserved forever.
Jude 1:13

“So you’re telling me that when I die I’ll continue to live, not in physical form, but live nonetheless?” Jack could see Stan’s skepticism. “And you believe that?” Stan asked.
“To the best of my ability,” was Jack’s honest answer. “Look, Stan, I admit that I don’t fully understand everything the term forever means, but Scripture says that we will live forever in heaven or hell. I believe that.”
Stan thought about that for a minute and then said, “I don’t know if I can wrap my mind around that enough to believe it.”
“You can’t wrap your mind around the things of God, Stan,” Jack tried to explain. “God is so much bigger than us. Just ask Him for the faith to believe now instead of trying to figure it all out before you accept His offer of salvation.”
Stan was unmoved.
“Look, Stan, I’m just saying it requires faith to believe in something we can’t categorically prove here and now. I’m also saying that I believe even though I have some questions about how forever actually works. Forever is a term we really don’t understand. But not understanding it completely has no effect on the truth that we will live forever.”

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We tend to fear things outside our control, disbelieving what we don’t understand. We live from day to day, taking life as it comes. We’re not acquainted with more than a temporal existence, so it’s hard to grasp the nature of eternity.
Trying to completely understand eternity is like trying to remember what it was like breathing amniotic fluid. We know it happened; yet we don’t understand it much, if at all.
The word forever conjures thoughts of living with physical, emotional, or mental limitations for the rest of time. But throughout eternity there will be no curse, and those limits will cease to exist.
Faith requires belief in an Infinite Someone bigger than our finite mind truly understands. Our not understanding forever does not make it untrue.

Prayer

“Lord, give me faith to believe in forever so that my choices here are based on where I want to spend all that time. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”

Sludge Free

You must live no longer as the Gentiles do.
Ephesians 4:17

There was no longer any friendly banter. The politicians had pulled out all the stops, and the gloves had come off. They were running smear campaigns and defaming each other. It didn’t matter what damage was done or that they had stooped to new lows; they wanted to win. Character assassination was the order of the day.
“Can you believe this?” Melodie said, laying down the newspaper. “Neither of them is standing on godly principals. All they want is to make his opponent look bad. I can’t, in good conscience, vote for either one of them.”
Kyle sighed. “They’re both walking in darkness. Both have consistently voted against moral legislation. They’ve made this election about money and who’s going to bring the economy back in line. You know, if we would honor God’s laws, we wouldn’t be in this financial crisis. There doesn’t seem to be a politician on the Hill that’s standing for what God wants. It’s getting so even the lesser of two evils is totally evil!” Kyle looked toward the ceiling and voiced his concerns. “Forgive our nation, Lord, and those of us who allowed things to get to this point. Raise up men and women to carry the fight to Washington and right this sinking ship. Lift us out of the darkness that has spread itself over our nation like sludge. Amen.”

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The New Living Translation uses the word ungodly in place of Gentiles, denoting Gentiles as anyone not living a godly life.
The world is full of people seeking personal gain in a godless manner. Among them are many of our politicians. They seek to further and empower their party’s worldview regardless of the cost.
Paul is precise in his instruction of how we are to respond. We are to avoid such living while trying to influence those who choose this lifestyle in a godly manner. We may find ourselves with opportunities to share our faith, yet we are instructed to not live as they do. Paul knew that our own spirituality will become contaminated if we swim in sludge.

Prayer

“Lord, keep me under Your watch and care. Help me refrain from anything that fails to line up with Your will. In Jesus’ Name, amen.”